Talk To Women
The secret about learning how to talk to women isn’t always about what comes out of your mouth. If you want women to think you are a fascinating conversationalist, you only have to do three things:
- be a good listener
- be curious
- and have well-rounded interests.
The most revered conversationalists in history were actually simply good listeners. It’s not just keeping your mouth shut – that doesn’t work and will make you seem like you are a bit dim-witted. Instead, knowing how to talk to women is about knowing when and what to say in the conversation. It’s all about knowing how to listen and then asking pertinent questions.
Taking a genuine interest in what a person is saying is always attractive. It makes the other person feel good and makes them more interested in you and what you have to say.
If you want to be completely comfortable when you talk to women, it also helps to be well rounded and informed. That means that you are able to comment and have an opinion on a variety of subjects. It makes you a better conversationalist and also a more interesting person in general.
Here are a few ways to accomplish this:
- Scan through at least one daily newspaper. You can do this online. While you may not have time to read the entire thing, try to pick at least one article to read from each section: world news, national news, sports, money, the arts, and so on. Take your time and think about the article. Examine your reaction to it and form an opinion. (Just be careful you don’t get pulled down into a negative mindset. Most news is negative and fear-inducing.)
- Pursue your hobbies and interests. Make sure you have something interesting going on in your life. (Boy, you’re going to get tired of hearing me say this one.) All work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy. Take some time in your life to be active in at least one activity you like. This could be playing chess, shooting hoops, reading history books, or taking in foreign flicks. Make yourself interesting and you automatically have something to talk about and add to a conversation.
- Try this exercise – it’s one that some of the most amazing women in the world have admitted doing to make themselves appear as scintillating conversationalists (same thing works for men who want to learn how to talk to women). What they do is think of a topic to bring up in conversation beforehand, such as in the shower, etc. They even do a little practicing about what they are going to say. Women such as Sophia Loren and Jackie O have talked about doing this.
So what if she is talking about a subject that you have never heard about in your life? Maybe she is talking about nuclear fission. In that case, you really have no comment, but you have lots of opportunity to ask questions and form an opinion. In instances like this, it pays to have an active curiosity about life.
So if you want to be able to talk to women and impress them with your conversational skills, remember the two most important skills or traits you can have are to be curious and to be well rounded and knowledgeable in many subjects.