How To Attract Women

Let’s face facts here. If you are a single guy, chances are good that at some point in your dating career you’re going to face rejection. That’s the likelihood. While you have little control over that, what you can control is your attitude and how you handle the ups and downs of the dating world.

It is crucial that you keep up your posture if you want to be successful at how to attract women. When I say posture, what I am referring to is your level of status you hold with the women.

For instance, one the far left side of the scale you have your wimpy, supplicating suck up and on the far right side the arrogant, selfish, self-centered jerk. Of course, being the nice guy that you are, you are aiming for somewhere in the middle.

If you are going to overshoot one way or the other, at least aim for a bit right of center. You have a better chance of recovering your image from that behavior than you do from being the wimpy doormat.

How To Attract Women:

1. To show you have good posture in the dating world and be successful in attracting women, one of the most important things you can do is let women know you have standards that she must live up to. In addition, you have boundaries that you will not allow others to cross.

The following tactic will demonstrate your self-confident posture immediately.

Say that you are at the bar and just start talking to a new woman. The conversation has been going well and the vibe is good so you are going to use what I call the “points system.” Here’s how it works:

When the woman makes a comment that agrees with anything you have already said, you respond by saying something like this:

“That’s a good analysis. You just scored a few points with me.”

Or “You scored some points there. A woman who can appreciate James Bond. I might just be seen at a movie with you.”

Smile as you say any of these things and that will help you in attracting women.

What you are doing is making it crystal clear that you don’t care about her approval. Rather, you are telling her she has to seek your approval. When you say she scored some points with you, you are implying that she didn’t have any before. It demonstrates that she has to work for your attention and that you are not like other men.

2. But the trick to using this “points system” in attracting her is to use it sparingly. Do not overdo it. If you do, then you are giving her too much confidence by awarding her points. Keep her guessing exactly where she stands with you.

Then, a little bit later, take away some points and see how that flies.

For instance, if she says she’s not a Yankees fan, you might respond with this: “Uh-oh. Red flag. You just lost a few points there. How can you possibly not like the Yankees?”

3. Don’t do this in an arrogant or jerk way. You’ve just shown you disapprove and so you want to watch how she responds.

It’s a great tool to have in how to attract women. If she calls you on it, keep a sense of humor.If she stalks away, then good riddance, because it is also a good way to weed out the women who are negative and don’t have a good sense of humor.

-Carlos Xuma

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