Get Your Girlfriend Back

Get Your Girlfriend Back

Nothing sucks more than being dumped. Well, some things do, but you can usually count a break-up as one of the more painful experiences you go through as a single guy. As a result, I have a non-ending flow of guys writing and asking advice on how to get your girlfriend back.

Now, I’ve got some great tips on how to get your girl back, but in this article, I want to talk a little bit about preventive maintenance. You know, preventing a problem before it happens.

I guarantee you it is a whole heck of a lot easier to keep your current girlfriend than to try to win her back after she’s made up her mind and dumped you.

One guy wrote and told me that his girlfriend of two years disrespects him by constantly checking out other guys — even when he’s with her. He says that he has to not only deal with other guys checking her out, but then he has to deal with her staring right back at them. He wonders if this is a form of being unfaithful.

Well his instincts were right on. She is acting in a very disrespectful way and really saying by her actions that her interest and attraction to you has waned. She might also be showing you that she needs your attention. So here’s the game plan – follow these steps:

Get your girlfriend back steps:

Step 1: Immediately become a bit aloof. Let her doubt that she is secure in her hold on you. Do not react with jealousy because that will reinforce her behavior.

Step 2: Flirt with other women. You are showing her that other women find you attractive. This also helps bolster your self-esteem.

Step 3: The problem is not other men staring at her. The true heart of the problem is your jealousy. When men ogle her, they are in essence, flattering you and complimenting you that you have a hot girlfriend.

But, you are right, you are going to end up figuring out how to bring her back if you don’t pay strict attention to these warning signs.

I’m not sure I would call her behavior being unfaithful as much as it is her holding her power over you. When you put up with this type of behavior, you are being a wimp. She’s playing you.  Of course, there is a chance she is just trying to make you jealous, but even so you need to do something about it.

If you feel the relationship is worth fighting for, I’m warning you that it will probably be an uphill battle. Follow the steps I gave above and get back to why you both fell for each other in the first place.

Your additional plan of attack should be to shower her with attention and let her know how attractive you find her and see if that helps with the flirtatious behavior. Then, if that doesn’t work, start calling her on her behavior. In addition, it never hurts to be unpredictable. Don’t always call when you say you are going to and keep her a bit on her toes.Try to do whatever you can to prevent your plan of attack from being how to get your girlfriend back. Remember prevention is the best medicine.

– Carlos Xuma

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