Sometimes men get so desperate to hook up with someone that they forget that simply meeting women shouldn’t be the goal. The goal needs to be meeting the RIGHT women.
We all know that women test men all the time. They do things to figure out if they want the guy to stick around or if they want to get intimate with the guy.
Well if you want to learn how to meet women worth spending your time with, you might want to consider turning that on its head and being the one who gives women the test.
Meet Women Test #1
Gold Digger. Women are biologically programmed to seek out and be attracted to men who can provide. This is okay. What isn’t okay is for a woman to want to be with you simply for your money. You can test this out by keeping your first couple of dates inexpensive and fun. Don’t spend a lot of money. If she acts disenchanted, this should tell you something. Don’t be a cheapskate, but don’t lavish her with expensive food or even trinkets. Be a little mysterious about your work and salary.
Meet Women Test #2
A Bore. Some people, men, included, just annoy us. You don’t want to feel like you have to work to enjoy her company. If she grates on your nerves, this is a huge red flag, because trust me, it’s only going to get worse. Even if the sex is great, eventually it will hurt your interactions in the bedroom, as well. You can find out a bit more about her by pushing her buttons. You can do this gently by teasing. You can also see how she react when you suggest doing something that is more your interest and not hers. If she’s not flexible, this also indicates someone who is a bore and better left alone.
Meet Women Test #3
Sane and Stable. Riding a girl’s emotional rollercoaster is a recipe for disaster. There really is no test for consistent, sane, stable behavior except to look for it. Keep an eye out for erratic, unstable behaviors and whatever you do, don’t ignore them when you see them.
Meet Women Test #4
Character. You should settle for nothing less than a woman with integrity, honesty and good values, and character. There are so many tests for this. The next time you go for coffee, hand her a $10 and ask her to stand in line when you use the restroom. When you return, see if she gives you your change or pockets it. When it comes to testing for integrity, you can trust your intuition a lot in this area.
These are just a few tests you can undertake to figure out whether a woman is the right one for you or not. But in reality, these types of tests really continue on throughout the relationship. When you know what you want and what you will and will not put up with, the tests become quite clear. Life is too short to waste your time on someone who doesn’t meet your reasonable expectations.