How To Attract Women

Beautiful and amazing women seem to be everywhere we go just within our reach – the market, the subway, work, restaurants, even in our own apartment buildings – and yet sometimes they might as well be on another planet. Sometimes, no matter how much we want to make them a part of our life and our world – they remain just outside our circle. This makes them seem unobtainable.

But don’t despair, this is merely an optical illusion. You have it within your power to meet and hook up with the most amazing women. It just takes a little effort on your part and a little bit of insider knowledge on how to attract women.

How To Attract WomenHere are some tried-and-true tips that have brought incredible women into my life and my friend’s lives.

Expand Your Social Circle

The first thing you need to do is actively expand your social circle. What I mean by this is if you already have a great group of friends, fantastic, but now is the time to branch out.

If you want to learn how to attract women, you are going to need to learn how to go outside your comfort zone. Start making friends wherever you go so you can create different social circles. For instance, make a list of your hobbies and interests and then go lone and look for groups in your area that meet regularly.

You can find meet up groups for everything from learning Spanish to playing chess to volleyball teams. Join them and make friends. Suggest everyone go out for a drink after the meeting (if it’s not already at a bar!).

Then work on combining your different social groups. Being a true social savant and PUA would mean multiple social skills, and merging groups together is invaluable for meeting women.

For instance, tell your volleyball friends and your work friends that you and a bunch of people are meeting at a particular place and tell them to all bring their friends. You will be amazed at your success in how to attract women just by doing this alone. But there is more.

Talk To Everyone You Meet

You’ve probably heard me say this a thousand times by now, but you should adopt my motto: Approach every man, woman, child, and small furry mammal.

If you really want to be successful in how to attract women, you need to force yourself to be outgoing. Even if you are naturally shy, you need to work on learning how to talk to everyone you meet – old, young, pretty, ugly, whatever. It is only by putting yourself out there that you will meet more women. For all you know, the nice clerk at the bookstore has a beautiful daughter she wants you to meet.

Plus, this goes a long way toward eliminating your approach anxiety, when you stop making it a big deal to talk to people in general.

Become Involved

Along with joining groups, you should make sure you spend a significant portion of your free time away from your home. Sitting at home alone or playing video games only hurts your chances of learning how to attract women. Get out there. Go for walks. Volunteer at soup kitchens or in other causes you believe in.

Do whatever it takes to get out and meet as many people as you can.

When women see you – or meet you – and see that you have this full life with a big social circle and that you are involved in many activities and groups and don’t sit at home moping around – you will automatically be attractive to them. So not only will you have the keys for how to attract women, but also as a nice bonus, you’re life will be more satisfying and fulfilling, as well.

-Carlos Xuma


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