Here’s a BETTER way to figure out women

In fact, what she does with her body is the most honest form of communication. Pay attention to the following:

  • She’s more likely to stick around if she’s facing your general direction (as opposed to the exit).
  • Same goes for her legs and feet – think of it as her “Sexual Attraction Compass”. You’re her “True North” if she’s oriented towards you.
  • Is her body language open or closed? Look at her facial expressions and limbs; they’ll be open (i.e. uncrossed and relaxed) if she feels at ease with you.
  • Is she comfortable coming into your “personal bubble”? Or does she tend to keep her distance?
  • Also, does she flinch when you brush against her hand, or does she not mind at all?
  • More importantly, does she keep bumping against you when you’re together?

All of these signs paint a pretty good picture of her internal state. Look out for these unspoken cues to help you figure out her level of interest.

Bonus tip: when she talks to you, does she seem enthusiastic? It’s a good sign if she’s eager to pick your brain or asks you about the little details of your life.

Otherwise, she might not be that into you – especially if she tends to pull back and let you do all the work in the conversation.

#3: Get the Truth Out of Her (When the Time is Right)

Generally, I’m not a big fan of playing mind games with women.

The most I tell men to do is tease a girl with light, playful humor to get her guessing about their true intentions. But that’s the extent of it.

All that does is set the stage before taking things to the next level. But after that, you can only beat around the bush for so long.


That’s why at some point, you can take that leap of faith and be honest about how you really feel. However, you should only do this when you’ve dropped enough hints beforehand.

Otherwise, you might want to give it some time before diving in.

Having said all that, you can get the straight dope from her by being upfront. That’s not to say you should be pushy or act like jerk; you can still be honest while being tactful at the same time.

For instance, you could tell her something like this:

“Hey, I just needed to be honest with you. The thing is, I really enjoy hanging out with you, and it would be awesome if we saw each other more. I don’t want to freak you out or pressure you, but that’s just how I feel. Also, I wanted to know if you’re more or less on the same page.”

The important thing is that you’re just “putting it out there”. Once she understands that you’re cool with it either way, she’s less likely to feel overwhelmed.

All you’re doing is meeting her halfway and taking the guesswork out of the equation for her.

If she reciprocates, then you’ve just built yourself a relationship on a foundation of honesty. If she doesn’t feel the same, then she’ll still respect you for giving her the option to choose.

Being classy means you’ll always come out a winner. Why burn your bridges with someone if you don’t have to?

She could very well recommend you to a cute friend who’s a better match for you.

So, reading women isn’t all that tricky. You just have to know where to look, and in some cases, shake things up. Let the proverbial chips fall where they may!

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Stay Alpha…
– Carlos Xuma

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