Get Your Girlfriend Back
She’s left you in the dust and you have no interest in ever dating any other woman again. And now you are wondering how to get your girlfriend back.
The first thing you need to realize is that the key to success with women is recognizing there are a lot of fish in the sea. That saying didn’t come about on its own. It is based in reality and some darn good advice.
The key to how to win your girl back is counter-intuitive and we’ll get to that in a minute. I hear you interrupting me saying, “but she was my soul mate.”
Well, it’s perfectly fine if you want to believe in soul mates, as long as you don’t think that you only have one soul mate in this universe. Getting caught up in the whole idea that there is only one person in the entire world who is right for you is one way to guarantee failure. Just think about it – if you meet someone who you believe is your soul mate, you will do anything under the sun to nurture that relationship, including losing sight of yourself and what attracted that woman to you in the first place.
In addition, if you believe there is only one person in the universe that is right for you, you will do anything to salvage that relationship when it starts to head south. This means you will throw your self-esteem right out the window. And when you do that, it’s game over.
Women are not going to stay attracted to men who are dependent and needy and have basically put all of their future happiness on one woman’s shoulders. That is a sure way to make a woman run for the hills.
So, go ahead and believe in soul mates. That’s a beautiful, romantic notion that might just be true. But realize that there are many people out there are potential soul mates.
Get Your Girlfriend Back Strategies:
1. Make sure you recognize that there are limitless options in this life. There is enough success (and women) for everyone. Let go of any jealous that you might let creep in when someone you know achieves success. There is enough for everyone.
2. Let go of the misconception that if you don’t get laid someone else will. If someone else gets laid, that doesn’t mean you won’t. There is not a scarcity of women in the world so that if another guy gets a girl that means you won’t get one. Develop a mentality of abundance, always realizing there are plenty of women to go around. That way you won’t be motivated by your fear of losing out.
3. Develop an attitude and mentality that is all about abundance. There are more women in the world than you could possibly meet and date in a lifetime. And I’m talking about women that you would WANT to meet and date. Don’t waste time on any woman who isn’t interested. There are so many women out there; you don’t have time to waste on those who don’t want you like you want them.
Okay, here’s the part where I confess that this article is about how to get your girlfriend back, but it’s also about how you don’t NEED your girlfriend back. What I really want you to realize is that you should only want people who want you like you want them. That is the key to a healthy and satisfying relationship – and ultimately a fulfilling life.