How To Date Women, 3 Secrets to Reading Female Body Language
Wouldn’t you like the ability to tell – from across the room – whether a woman is interested in you or not? It’s not magic. If you know about reading female body language, you will be able to tell if the woman you are talking to digs you or whether she’d rather be somewhere else.
Right now, I’m going to share 3 secrets about reading female body language that will make your dating life easier and more successful.
Reading Female Body Language – Secret 1: Know the Deltas?
In mathematics, the Delta is the Greek symbol that signals change. For example, when the temperature drops from 70 degrees to 60 degrees, the change is expressed as a delta of 10.
Let’s put this in the context of reading female body language. When you are observing a woman’s body signals, it is more important to note any change in the signal then a signal itself.
What do I mean by that? Well, it is more important to note when she changes from being really talkative and open to very quiet and withdrawn. In this case, there is a good chance you did or said something wrong.
Hopefully this example is the exception, because what we are really interested in are the deltas that show her response to you growing warmer, not colder, right?
Reading Female Body Language – Secret 2: Know the Important Signals…
Thee important body language signals are the ones that really count. It is important that you have these memorized so you can respond accordingly. So just what are some of these important, big signals?
Dilated pupils (when the pupils enlarge) indicate that her attraction to you is growing. That’s obviously a good signal. But by itself, it may not be a sure sign. For instance, maybe in a dark bar, her eyes have dilated to adjust to the light.
If her eyes are dilating – you actually see it happen – and it’s not an adjustment to the light – and she is making heavy eye contact, then those are stronger signals. This locking eyes actually leads to attraction between the two of you. Remember, rather than wait for attraction to happen, be the alpha male and create the attraction.
Reading Female Body Language – Secret 3: Check out her friend’s signals…
Notice I didn’t say check out her friends. I said check out the body language her friends are sending. Watch what the other women she is with are doing and saying.
If her friends are not responsive to you, are closed off, or hostile this could pull the plug on any chance you have with her. If you do notice this, your first task is to get them to be open to you. Otherwise, those girlfriends of hers are going to pull her right out of your hot little hands.
These three secrets will increase your odds of success when dating women, but if you really want to be the best man you can be, it will also help to study alpha body language you can adopt to send your own signals to women that you are confident, attractive and worth their time and energy.