Women have sex with men they fall in love with, while men fall in love with women they have sex with.
The reality is that women want and love sex, too. But many women need to feel they trust the person they are going to have sex with or have such an overwhelming desire that they just can’t help themselves.
Men who want to get laid have to learn about attracting women and gaining a woman’s trust before she will put her guard down.
If you want to be sexually competence, you need to be proficient in two areas: in how you communication and which skills you have.
Communication in Attracting Women:
A man needs to make a woman feel cared for by how he communicates with her. Yep, that means, how he talks to her. In reality, if you are able to communicate with a woman about making her feel good and her pleasure, she is going to be more turned on.
In fact, she will be more turned on by what you say about it than what you actually do physically. That’s because the key to sexual desire is in her brain. But don’t take the conversation in the direction of sex unless she has brought it up or you have already established a physical connection. Here are some key words you can use in your conversation that will be sensual and spark desire in her:
- Intense and intensity
The key is to use these words sparingly, sprinkled throughout the conversation so you don’t sound like a romance novel hero who is only good at attracting women in black ink on a page.
Skills in Attracting Women
I’ll be honest here; most skill in the sack comes with experience and knowledge. Everyone makes mistakes, but you need to be the type of guy who learns from those errors. Give yourself a break and move on.
Skills are basically the same as the techniques you employ to make her feel good and to avoid any problems during intimacy.
Here are a few skills you should know:
1. Have a general knowledge of a female body. Learn what she likes and how to appreciate her body.
For instance, foreplay is king. Take your time. Keep your touch light to spark desire. Oral sex is powerful. She will want clitoral stimulation, but not immediately, only when she is already very aroused.
Women also want nonsexual behavior, such as eye contact so she knows she isn’t just any body out there.
2. Women want a relaxed sexual experience. They don’t want it rushed. Slow down and take your time. Make sure you are prepared with a condom.
During your first sexual experience together, make sure you take care of her needs first. Be present during sex and watch how she reacts to what you do. This is key to attracting women – seeing what works and what doesn’t and learning from it.