Attract Women, 3 Secret “Tells”

Have you ever caught a glimpse of yourself in mirror or window or even caught yourself on a video and thought, “Is that really me?” Often, the image we have of ourselves inside is a lot different than how others see us.

Attract Women - 3 Secret TellsFor the most part, that is fine, but sometimes we have behaviors or habits that we are unaware of that negatively impact our ability to attract women. One way to discover these ticks or traits is to enlist the help of a trusted female friend. Tell her you need her help and ask her to judge you on the following things and alert you to any oddities that you might not be aware of:

  • The way you move. This means the way you stand, the way you walk, the way you gesture. Make sure that every movement is calculated. There is a guy who walks by my apartment every morning on the way to the subway and he always catches my eye because he has such a goofy walk. He’s an attractive man, but his weird gait makes him look kind of dorky. If he just changed the way he walked alone, he would probably increase his ability to attract women tenfold.
  • The way you speak. Sometimes we have bad habits that we don’t even realize that make us sound less attractive and less intelligent than we really are. It could be the unnecessary use of “ums” or “Okays” or some other annoying filler word. It could be that our voice is too high-pitched and sounds a bit girly. It could be we speak too fast, which is not sexy, detracts from our ability to attract women, and also undermines any appearance of self-confidence or alpha male-ness.
  • Weird tics. Often we don’t realize that we have subconscious behaviors that can detract from our appearance and overall impression we give to attract women. For instance, you might chew on your inner lip when you are thinking or you might pick your cuticles or scrunch your face. Again, these are things that we probably aren’t even aware that we do but that can detract from the image we want to portray.

Now, these are just a few of the things that you might be unaware of that hurt your ability to attract women. You could be as handsome as Brad Pitt, but if you have a goofy walk and you lisp and talk super fast and tend to bite your lip all the time, you are not going to be as attractive as you would appear if you eliminated those habits and characteristics.

Again, just find someone you trust, preferably a female, but it could be a guy friend, as well and ask them to honestly point out any weird tics you have or behaviors or physical movements that strike them as less than attractive.

Be a man and be open to the criticism and suggestions because they will only help you. They will help you in your ability to attract women but they will also help you find that spot where the image you portray to the world matches the image you have inside about yourself.

-Carlos Xuma


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