Many guys I know aren’t ready for marriage and aren’t even looking for a girlfriend. They want to play the field and date for fun, companionship, and sex. I will reveal some seduction tips that are helpful in both ways.
I’m here to tell you there is nothing wrong with that. If you are in a short-term relationship (which I define as less than six months long), then you need to follow a few rules to keep the relationships hot, heavy, and fun for both of you.
Here are some ideas that have worked for the guys I know:
1. Watch for red flags. Life is too short to waste even a short-term relationship on someone who might be disrespectful, dishonest, or not good for you in any other way. You are not going to change this woman, so move on as quickly as you can.
2. For a short-term romance, you need to make sure that you are not dating any one woman more than once a week. If you do, they will start thinking you are relationship material and wanting you to be exclusive. If that’s not your goal, then you need to make that clear as day in the beginning. Honesty is the best policy. Never lead a woman on. But beware that when you immediately let her know you are not looking for a relationship, this makes her even more interested in you, so you have to keep tabs on that.
3. Make sure every meeting you have with a woman is advancing your game and creating attraction. For instance, at the end of your first get together, you must kiss her. At the end of your second date, maybe longer kissing and touching. On the third date, bring out a little seduction, extended kissing and touching. By your fourth date, more kissing, erotic touch, and maybe shedding some clothing items.
By that fifth date, the touching should be heavy, moved to the bedroom and heading toward sex.
5. You can use small rendezvous to keep the attraction building when you both are busy and it is difficult to meet up. These small meetings, such as coffee or lunch dates keep the tension there, as well. Keep the pressure up, though. Keep going for the seductive kisses and increasing their intensity and frequency each time you meet.
Remember that during the initial stages of any relationship, long-term, short-term, serious, or casual; try not to come on too strong during those first two months. Don’t over compliment her. Don’t confess your feelings or attraction to her. Don’t write poetry. Don’t give her gifts. Keep it simple and let her wonder how you feel about her. That mystery will build her attraction like nothing else. These are some seduction tips that can help you get the girl you want.