If you are serious on how to approach women, you need to take a look at what signals you are sending by the way you look and the way you act before you even open your mouth to say hello.
Women don’t want a guy who acts like a buffoon or teenage boy. Sometimes the most sophisticated guy will fall into this behavior. If you want to learn the best way to attract women and spark their interest, look at three elements of your style that broadcast something about you and your external game:
Approach Women Tips:
1. Your looks. Now, I’m not necessarily talking about the looks you were born with. I’m talking more about the way you present yourself to the world. The Italians call it la bella figura – or presenting an attractive face to the world. When it comes to your appearance, I want you to consider how you clean and style your hair, how clean and neat your nails are, whether you have nice teeth and good breath, how you smell, and how you care for your skin.
In addition, you should look at whether you dress neatly and stylishly and whether you are in decent physical shape. You don’t have to be a gym rat or spend a thousand dollars on an outfit, but you should buy the best quality you can afford and be in decent enough shape to keep up with everyone else.
Your posture should be good and your body language should exude confidence and relaxation.
By concentrating on these areas, you will be more attractive to women and as an added side bonus, will boost your own self-esteem. By looking your best and caring for yourself, you are telling everyone else you are worth it.
Women may care less about your appearance once they get to know you, so all of this may not matter as much as how you make them feel, but it would be a shame to have a woman turn away from you based on your lack of effort toward your appearance.
You don’t have to have an expensive vehicle, but you should have one that runs well and is kept clean. This is a reflection on you, so make sure it sends a positive message about your personality.
Women don’t need to date a man who drives a Maserati or Corvette. Driving a car like that is not the key to getting laid. Women tend to get irritated by men who are too much into their cars.
So, just have a clean, well-functioning vehicle that will get you from point a to point b.
3. Your abode. This could be your house, your trailer, your apartment, your penthouse loft, wherever you live, take some care with your place, which is another reflection of you and your and personality.
If you’re place is a mess when she shows up, it also sends a strong message to her that you aren’t willing to put in any effort for her. Not a good way to start a relationship.
Keep your place clean and use it to showcase your personality.
If you think about these three areas and how you can use them to help you attract and approach women, you will be ahead of the game.